Showing posts with label dilemma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dilemma. Show all posts

Thursday, August 21, 2014

His wishes

ada banyak permintaan anak ku sorang ni...\

1. 1st in term of nak experience naik kenderaan2 ni....
  • Bus
  • Boat
  • Aeroplane
  • Train

2. Nak tgk binatang..what he wanted to see the most?
  • Panda
  • Kangaroo
mama memang dh pening sangat kepala memikirkan macamana nak merealisasikn impian dia...so my intial options were :

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  • Bus : Naik Hop-On-Hop-Off
  • Boat : No idea...xnak dah naik boat kt kampung ayer, brunei...cruise putrajaya???
  • Aeroplane : p visit babah la...g brunei! or plan to go to Muzium Tentera aka Royal Malaysian Air Force Museum kalau xkesempatan but of coz hubby kena tag along..but teringin nk bwk si kecik pergi sini..
  • Train : naik Putra Lrt?? or naik ERL to airport?
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  • Panda : kita p zoo negara je la LOL
  • Kangaroo : harus la Aussie kan?

but alhamdulillah as at now, managed to realisasikan few of his dreams..

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  • Bus : Field trip to National Science Centre
  • Boat : Cruising along Mines last Monday!! yeaaaa....he was the happiest kid on that day i guess!! hehehe
  • Aeroplane : going to brunei insyaAllah next week..kan hubby dh beli tiket...
  • Train : to airport insyaAllah ayahanda akan anta, so ERL biler dr airport ke rumah? with stroller and 1 luggage bag? ermmm...tgk mcmana dl..hehehe
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  • Panda : kalau xsmpt weekday kita pergi any weekend ye...tanpa babah pn xpe la
  • Kangaroo : Soon k farouq soon...tunggu babah beli tiket dl... *wink*

Nanti we story2 pasal his field trip as well naik boat itu k!

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

1st Annual International Education & Parenting Conference (IEIPC)

1st Annual International Education & Parenting Conference (IEPC).....Organized by Brainy Bunch Foundation & One Heart Creative Solution

below i attached 3 pamphlets..the 1st two look similar but different in the "TICKET PRICE" and the last one is the current pamphlet and the current price if you plan to attend this conference..

It is RM 100/pax...



sorry pamphlet dh renyuk sbb ni scanned copy
I've been thinking to join but the latest ticket price yang i tau was RM 300 per COUPLE...dah sapa plk couple aku nak g nanti..HEHEHE...then hasrat dah terkubur...

and i saw mommynadia updated as below..so biler i tgk my saved photo dalam phone br prasan yang i mmg dh save their current pamphlet and mmg dah stated ticket price RM 100 jer.....



when the 1st time i knew this (with the price of RM300/pax), mmg i dah tanya BBIM and they said they provide a day care..but until 10pm?? kesian anakku...kalau teacher dia ada skali ok kot..kalau orang dia xknal and we dont know how many kids will be there lagi...and memandangkan anakku ni dh 6 bulan di school pn hanya certain cikgu je dia akan stop menangis pepagi itu pn KEKADANG je...

so with this reduced of price..i kena tanya my mom (tapi kesian la plk smpi malam) or i anta kat my auntie yang ada bebudak kecik yang boleh tgkkan si kecik...aiiishhh senangnya kalau ada suami leh tgk kan anak..xyah susahkan sesiapa T___T but if the aunties will be there to look after him, im gonna bring him of coz! :D

Feel free to their website to know more of this...and 100% profit from this event will go to children of PALESTINE, EGYPT & SYRIA...

Monday, October 7, 2013

Car Seat untuk di sewa?

Anyone knows if ada perkhidmatan car seat untuk di sewa ini...

my lil boy mmg sentiasa ddk dalam carseat dia...usually kalau x ddk pn sbb carpool with atok n backseat mmg dah occupied ngan 3 adults...so mmg xde space nak ltk..kalau ikut only few times je dia x duduk dalam car seat...and selalunya SEKEJAP je perjalanan...

our longest trip was to the EAST COAST...perjalanan for almost 13hours and he just seated quietly in his car seat...ada jgk trip ke Penang..and ke JB (gigih tfer car seat to kereta pak mertua)...and all for his safety for sure kan...

ok pasal car seat ni slalu nak wat special entry but later la ek...

biler si kecik ni TAKDE carseat, dia akan ddk diam...bukan la berlari ke sana ke mari...dia bley duduk diam aka lean properly but lepas tu dia boring..sbb dia xdpt tgk luar!!! so dia akan ddk atas riba...mana tahan mama dia ni nk meriba budak almost 15kg tu...HAHAHA...and for safety purposes pn mama akan peluk kuat2 tkt ttiba TERemergency break ke kan...

so perjalanan kami ke sabah..to be exact KK to Kundasang..perjalanan yang sejam lebey or entah...ada ke perkhidmatan sewa car seat di KK? rasanya nak sewa pn for 2 days ke kundasang tu je...lepas tu jalan2 KK rasanya ok lagi kot...

ada jgk plan nak membeli portable carseat ni...something mcm gmbr bawah ni...

pic from google

tp tu la..kalau beli ni kesian si kecik x dapat ddk n menikmati pemandangan kat luar...nnti dia mesti stress...aishhh...

so mari kita survey dl mcmana....sapa2 yang tau meh la share ek...either tau pasal sewa carseat or mana nak beli portable car seat ni..

TQ in advance...

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

: : Sakit Gigi : : Klinik Pergigian Sharifah Aminah : :

After more than 9 years...

Kadang kadang...read as 2 or 3 years akan wat scalling...tp malas giler...

so last week...isnin n selasa dh start berdenyut2 sakit gigi...then khamis i was on mc sbb diarrhea n period pain..ptg g jmp dentist...i ada wat root canal kt gigi depan...but since aritu xtau gigi mana yang sakit even bdenyut2...dentist suspect gigi yang wat root canal tu infection...and if infection kena buat balik root canal and percentage nk successful is 50-50...so kalau buat but sakit lagi so the only choice..cabut..HOIIII!!! gigi depan ok...xkan la nk cabut T___T

since last time ada tampal yang tercabut/terkakis...so lps wat xray dentist told me yg nmpk ok je root canal tu..but if sakit jgk dia ckp no choice kena buat treatment tu blk dl...but dia wat tampalan dl kt area yg dh tercabut *sikit je pn* and suruh dtg esok kalau sakit...they provided me the antibiotik and pain killer..

Friday...came to office...ate pain killer around 7.30am...smpi opis n rasa the toothache tu mcm xleh tahan..pain killer xjalan or sakit melampau2...ketuk2 n main2 gigi and noted that bukan gigi root canal tu yang sakit...but gigi sebelah...dh bersyukur la sbb bukan gg tu..pergi dentist around 10am left opis...dpt jmp doc n dia wat xray again n ckp gg sbelah but she cannot do any treatment sbb tgh sakit..n sbb makan pain killer pn sakit jgk..so kena wat next week nya...mata berair2 tahan sakit..called hubby n menangis...n hubby cakap kalau gigi sakit cabut je la..huhu

so this was last monday....seram ok!! n time kena bius tu..mengalir airmata manjaku ini...n akhirnya gigi ku sudah ok...but the treatment x complete lagi..last time i kena wat 3kali n berturut2...but this time doc ckp twice je but 2nd stage next week..sementara tu dia wat temporary tampalan....


En hubby yang suruh cabut je kalau sakit..tp bila cakap dh ok n xde kena cabut mana2....takut pulak bini dia rongak..hahahhaa...

i know we can do bridge as gigi palsu (almost RM4k)...yang permanent yang bukan leh cabut2 tu...but nk tggu gigi siap tu? ermmm....alhamdulillah la xkena cabut gigi depanku..huhu...

cantik ke..hewhewhew..

my MCs and the bills...huhu
btw...usually i akan pergi Klinik Pergigian Sharifah Aminah...dari zaman wat braces and 1st root canal pn kat situ...but since they have other branch and the main doc jaga branch baru di sunway batu caves...and my record ada di greenwood pya branch..so last thursday i went yang greenwood...but since dia pya option cakap 50-50 n cabut..so i nak jmp doctor Sharifah Aminah la...giler cabut!! hahaha...

So smua treatment di situ je la ngan doctor sharifah...sunway ni based on appointment..mmg ssh nk jmp doc kalau xde appointment...greenwood xpe..walk in...mcm best je tau...doc muda..ada 2 klinik...masuk keje kul 10pg n blk before 5pm...sabtu ahad ttp...and staff dia pn mostly loyal ngan dia..orang2 yang i jumpa since last 10 years almost smua ada lagi... :D

Sakit gigi...mmg smua benda xleh buat...nk tido je..but since u hav kid..ingat leh tido mcm tu je? n farouq diarrhea plk last sunday...and i dh kumur cengkih..lastly letak colgate pain relief tu yang jalan ok...

But kita boleh amalkan (In Sha Allah) :

DOA APABILA MENDERITA SAKIT GIGI

Surah al-Mulk ayat 23

Maksudnya : “ Katakanlah ( wahai Muhammad): Allah yang menciptakan kamu ( dari tiada kepada ada ), dan mengadakan bagi kamu pendengaran dan penglihatan serta hati
( untuk kamu bersyukur ) tetapi amatlah sedikit kamu bersyukur :”

Keterangan ayat

Menurut al-Khatib dalam kitab al-Tarikh dan Ibn Munzir daripada Ibn Abbas berkata, Nabi s.a.w. bersabda, maksudnya: “ Sesiapa yang mengalami sakit gigi, maka hendaklah dia meletakkan jarinya atas gigi tersebut lalu dibacakan ayat ini “ ( Al-Durrul Manthur; tafsir ayat 23, surah al-Mulk )

Al-Daruqutni pulq meriwayatkan dalam al-Afrad daripada Ibn Abbas berkata, Nabi s.a.w. bersabda, maksudnya: “ Sesiapa meletakkan jarinya atas gigi tersebut lalu dibacakan ayat ke-98 surah al-An’am dan ayat ini, maka dia akan sembuh dengan izin Allahs.w.t.” 
( Al-Durrul Manthur, tafsir ayat 23, surah al-Mulk
Manusia kurang mensyukuri nikmat kurniaan Allah. Menghabiskan usia pada perkara yang tidak memberi faedah seperti kebanyakkanorang awam merupakan tanda tidak mensyukuri nikmat Allah. Sasterawan yang lalai menyebabkan fakta-fakta  sejarah tentang lembah yang sudah luput dalam lipatan sejarah juga merupakan tanda membahagi masa pada perkara yang tidak bermanfaat. (Hada’iq zatu bahjt,, Dr Aid al-Qarni )

Khasiat dan Kaifiat beramal

Ayat ini boleh digunakan sebagai ikhtiar mengurangkan sakit gigi .Walau bagaimanapun bergantung semata-mata kepada ayat sahaja tidak mendatangkan apa-apa kesan kecuali dengan izin Allah s.w.t. 

Monday, February 25, 2013

Difference Between Measles and Chickenpox and RF

There are similarities and differences between measles and chickenpox. They originate from two separate viruses, but can cause a few similar symptoms. Many people worry they won’t be able to tell the two apart because both diseases have rashes, but rash appearance and behavior are very dissimilar. Generally, most people are sicker with measles than with chickenpox, have a higher fever, and have greater risk for complications.

Some similarities between measles and chickenpox are noted in the first days of illness. Both diseases share early symptoms like slight fever, runny nose, and cough. Measles sufferers might report sore throat as a symptom, but occasionally pox can form in the throat, causing irritation.


Some differences in these early days include that measles sufferers may have light sensitivity, and about two to three days into the illness, the fever with measles greatly increases to about 104-105 degrees F (40-40.56 degrees C). In contrast, chickenpox tends to continue to run a lower grade fever, though a few people who are really ill, either babies or teens and adults, may have a higher fever.



The measles rash begins in earnest with increased fever. Usually, chickenpox rash occurs a little earlier and doesn’t follow very high fever. At first, measles and chickenpox rash could look slightly similar. Pox bumps tend to be larger and appear more like bug bites, and then they fill with fluid. Measles rash is usually comprised of smaller bumps that ultimately blend together to create single patches of the rash all over the body.



A measles rash often begins on the face, whereas chickenpox rash can occur anywhere, and doesn’t flow together. Pox rash continues to change too, moving from blister state to open sores before crusting over. The rash associated with measles moves from pinpoint to single rash state. Skin may be dry or flake, but open sores are not present.

It’s true that both measles and chickenpox rashes can be itchy, but typically, pox rashes are itchier. Another way to distinguish these illnesses is that after a few days into chickenpox, many people — especially kids — don’t feel all that ill. They may have mild stomach discomfort, be a little cranky, or have trouble with itching, but fever usually decreases. Kids or adults with measles are sicker. Although both conditions require about the same recovery period, those afflicted with the measles may be sicker for a longer portion of that time.

There are a few complications of chickenpox. Most often, the biggest risk is getting a bacterial infection in one or more of the pox. For measles, there’s a strong risk of developing bacterial infections of many different kinds. Ear infections, pneumonia, bronchitis, or even swelling of the brain can occur.

One important similarity between measles and chickenpox is they can be dangerous for pregnant women and unborn children. Due to potential for complication, all people with either virus should seek medical care. Doctor care is also advised because people shouldn’t self-diagnose illnesses.



Based on the highlighted facts in yellow color, i tend to believe that my lil boy is having chicken pox..measles is demam campak right? coz i know demam campak xkan ada blister...but alhamdulillah doctor provided ubat gatal to stop him from menggaru...


Last weekend we seek an opinion from doctor and the doctor confirmed its a chicken pox..provide us ubat demam, ubat tahan gata, antibiotic and as well calamine lotion..

Started last wednesday, as usual before off to bed i will change his diaper and go to toilet and brush teeth watsoeva..so bila took off his shirt, i found 3 red spots...then saja tanya...

something bite u farouq?

dia plk pandai jawab...a'aa..ants..

and sikecik plk xde demam selsema batuk ke apa...esok nya anta to nursery as usual...then my blk my mom told me farouq kena chicken pox..ada few kids pn kena...since xbyk jumaat anta jgk g nursery...then jumaat ptg nmpk the red spots dh turned into blister..meaning dh berair..ok confirmed chicken pox! 

so i told my brother to standby la if by monday xleh anta nursery...went to clinic on saturday, and doctor told few kids pn dh dtg..i was asking whether boleh anta nursery or not..so doc said it will took about 10 to 14days...time blister tu berair mmg xleh anta..sbb kalau pecah ke apa tu yang berjangkit...but bila dh kering leh je anta to the nursery...so me dlm hati dh "alamak"....

think positive and xpk banyak...doc pn cakap eventho xdemam but still kena makan ubat...furthermore kalau nmpk dia pasif jgn anta nursery sbb his body kinda weak and takut sng selsema n batuk..so i just give him all kind of medicines and sapu that lotion...sangat senang skrg since my lil boy willingly nk makan ubat and sng je sapu that lotion..

so yesterday ahad...there is no new pox..yg sedia ada pn dh kering n dh bkudis...and si kecik pn tido sng..khamis n jumaat agak crancky..bukan menangis tp sangat lama berpusing atas katil n cari position yang paling comfortable...so since he is ok...pox pn tgk dh kering..so im sending him to the nursery today...

Smlm jgk kami kasi air kelapa to him..pure without adding sugar..my mom told me to give him air kelapa biler banyak pox nya keluar...doc pn advise suruh minum air kelapa since kena kasi makan/minum benda yang sejuk and air kelapa is one of it...xperlu tggu keluar banyak or sket...tp mnum pakai cawan buat muka..tp kasi thru syringe and said it is ubat..laju je nganga... :)

In Sha Allah semuanya ok...mayb mmg rezeki dia pox xkeluar banyak..or mayb later baru keluar..but who knows and thanks sbb bukan skrg since mama xleh cuti..after 28hb mungkin...be good k farouq...


 

Just merah before berair..and only those spots je yang naik
RF with calamine lotion

Cheeky boy...ada few kt bawah mulut 1 kt hidung n 1 bwh mata..

Hopefully mederma can reduce/remove the scar

I read few items can be used to remove the chicken pox scar...i bought mederma and will try it first..

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Holiday & Impianku

Happy to hear from my SIL that my parents in law just came back from BALI...they went there from last friday for 4 days..

My MIL decided to become a housewife if im not mistaken, after my FIL continued his Master in Mechanical Engineering in Manchester, UK. Started from there, she handled all the house chores plus the 4kids yang almost selang setahun all alone, and the last 2 kids agak jauh gapnya..5 years kot..my hubby is the eldest yo...im a Kak Long in the house...but they call me as Kak Zurai only...and became Mak Long now...hehehe

So since the youngest skrg pn dh Form 1, and 3 of the kids currently working n study at melaka..so ramai leh tgk2 kan the youngest tu...so this is the perfect time for both of them berjalan and menikmati masa2 tua bersama2..hehehe...btw my FIL currently masih bekerja..last few years he hold the title as DEAN and sangat bz n sgt slalu kena travel..so recently he decided nk jadi ketua jabatan je..no more as dekan fakulti...coz universiti yang baru nk bkembang sangat banyak research kena buat...

Since then, he is quite free..ajar pn degree for last year..bebudak2 master je...and since puan isteri (MIL) pn surirumah..sng la nk berjalan..sorang je kena mntk cuti kan? As far what i can remember :

  • last time he had to give a talk and it held at phuket, he tagged along my SIL and her husband...their expenses of coz only the flite tickets..accomodation di tanggung beres...siap smpt wat island hoping smua..
  • he went to dubai jgk (berdua this one i not sure work related ke idak).
  • g jepun jgk (melawat anak n mbawa 2 anak skali)...
  • g korea jgk (berdua melawat anak buah)..
  • g US jgk (attend konvo anak n bawak 2 anak).....and amik shari transit kat qatar utk bjalan (but hubby dh xkeje sana masa ni) and kena bayar la sket harga tiket...but my FIL penah ke qatar before that *work related* and visited my hubby
  • pergi jalan2 brunei dah 2 3 kali kot...
  • g miri la..
  • sandakan la...
  • yesterday i heard br beli tiket ke Medan & Langkawi...

Ada banyak lagi tempat drg penah pergi...istanbul..Haji and also umrah for few times...UK and tour europe zaman muda2 dulu....

Beside berjalan berdua..slalu jgk drg wat family trip...
  • bandung
  • tioman 
  • USS, Singapore ( me x join sbb drg g jumaat malam tido jb n i xleh cuti)
  • latest legoland (my 1st time la joined them without hubby)

But the best thing..my SIL cakap...everytime berjalan...mereka xshopping...even time g US pn xberapa shopping...even g bandung pn...so byk la save kt situ kan..

So me keep on saying..."takpe zuraida"..maybe nak berjalan ngan hubby bukan skrg...mayb lagi spuluh tahun...bila financially stable..and  hope HOLIDAY la n not works related la..xbest la kalau berjalan sbb works related tu...works related at least dpt g tmpt orang n just bayar tiket flite je..accomodation smua dh lepas...

Me sangat la teringin nak berjalan ke :
  • Any islands...im such a loser ok..xpenah pergi pulau2...xpenah island hoping...uwaaaa..xpernah snorkelling...xpenah pakai bikini
  • Melawat negara dekat2...asia tenggara la specially..penah ke jakarta bandung...jakarta bandung...singapore pn xpenah pergi..apatah lagi vietnam la...thailand la...owhh teringin nak ke yogjakarta..sangat2..nk tgk candi borobudur.. :)
  • Middle east n of coz nk ke qatar...tgk tmpt en suami bekerja dulu...tgk hasil apa yg dia penah contribute to that country
  • UK n of coz manchester...nk tgk tmpt dia membesar...kalau dh smpi UK harus la ke london bagai..kalau cuti n DUIT banyak leh tour europe...wakakaka...
if items #3 and #4 tu jauhhhhh lagi akan tercapai sbb skrg financial x stabil lagi..kena uruskan rumah serdang..rumah rawang..beli family car and wat saving balik baru la boleh plan...jom la en suami kita berjalan ke tempat2 the 1st 2 items dulu...huhu...terasa sangatlah LOSER ok...trip ke Hongkong last time tu pn sbb i dah cakap, kalau xpergi aritu..mmg xkan pergi la buat masa terdekat ni...

Since *alhamdulillah* kami berdua pernah mengerjakan UMRAH...so if ada rezeki lebey mayb akan ke sana together plk...sbb sebelum ni pergi ngan family masing2 je...

i rasa masalah terbesar kami adalah MASA....and since en suami keje di brunei..sangat susah nk plan bagai...trip kami ke bandung n HK pn last minute pya preparations ok...semua pn mahal...kalau en suami keje dkt sini..stakat pergi any weekend and amik cuti sehari pn dh leh g tmpt2 1st 2 items tu...en suami pn slalu balik smggu n dpt skali je weekend n tu la masa nya nk balik melaka..so mcmana nak berjalan? ermmmmm

Takpe yang..zurai bukan complaint..sbb tau priority kita skrg nk settlekan rumah2 tu dl...so zurai akan sabar menanti :)

Update :

Apa ni citer pasal in laws je kan...my family pn selalu jgk berjalan...hehehe.. :)

This year pya plan :

  • Perform umrah *again n again* but kali ni masa bulan ramadhan..insyaAllah selama sebulan n smpi shari dua raya kot
  • Ke US mayb for 3weeks or almost sbulan nak melawat kakak n family...tp berdua je..risau mmg risau..tp kos tu banyak sangat kalau i nak ikut..better kasi duit flite tiket tu buat drg belanja lagi bagus...lagipun dh winter dh bersalji  n risau nk bwk farouq yang asma itu beside lamaaa tu nk cuti..hehehe
  • School holiday bulan 3 nak bila tah mmg dh banyak plan....menghantar orang kawin n berjalan...
Beside that :
  • sudah ke beijing
  • thailand *sempadan je kot*
  • indonesia...as usual jakarta n bandung
  • brunei 
  • kat msia almost smua tmpt kot dh g...selain kt semenanjung..kk kuching miri labuan...
My mom teringin nk ke vietnam n jg yogjakarta *sama mcm anakmu ini*..so insyaAllah if ada rezeki, anakmu yang xpenah g sana akan ajak my parents skali kot..

DOA moga murah rezeki....amin amin....




Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Most important area

I'm not good in cooking...

but it doesn't stop me to have a very nice kitchen cabinet/area that can give me inspiration to cook...lol

Our condo has a limited space for kitchen area..thus we need to fully utilize the whole area..and to make sure it can fit my periuk belanga...cawan gelas everything that i already have in hand...excited rumah xsiap tp dh shopping for the past 3 years ok...not recently..hahahha...

despite the kitchen area...actually all areas pn quite small as we have 4 bedrooms for our 1100++ sqft condo...master bedroom pn kecik..

but what can you say..we bought this house before me n hubby got married...and of coz kena cari affordable condo je kan..but if i sell it now..we can gain more than RM 100k++...woot wootttt.......

from kitchen to the small balcony (to place our washing machine and dryer machine)

view from dining area..

saya mahu...

saya mahu begini juga....

bersabarlah hati...mari simpan duit untuk renovate our landed house di rawang....in sha Allah all my dreams will coming true....dgn syarat ongkos nya ada... :)


Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Kindy Hunting

Me n hubby decided to move in to our house @ Serdang...but still continue to reno the house at Rawang...

therefore, need to send my lil boy to a new nursery and alang2 dh tukar decided to send him to  a playschool la..

Since im moving to serdang but nak jgk sometimes lepak gombak..so need to find kindy yang area my office or area KL..phewww...i have few playschools in mind skrg..and hubby pn ada officemate stay at the same kondo in serdang and sent his son to 1 of playschool in seri petaling..

But if i send my son to seri petaling harus la mmg susah nk gerak morning from gombak..giler jauh kan..they have branch there in Bangsar as well..but monthly fee kt bangsar is different..increase by RM 200 kot..huhu..and furthermore if i send him to seri petaling tu pn..owhh nanti anakku tidak diserap dengan ilmu agama..mama ni dh la xde masa nk mengajar...so decided not to send him now..mayb time dia umur 5 6 tahun ke..then baru la mmg boleh hantar sana meanwhile hantar to islamic kindy dl...

Yesterday i called 1 kindy ni..they have branches kt kl..1 kt bangsar and 1 kt taman desa..taman desa mmg boleh la if from serdang..and from my current office about 6.5km je..and if i from gombak..akan sampai dulu opis so leh punch card dl baru send my son..*planning planning*..bangsar and taman desa pn different RM200..and dah la bangsar pn leh tahan jammed..so kita pilih taman desa je..the nearest from my office..other playschools mcm jauh..mmg la lagi best but as jauh xde nearby so kita lupakan..and taman desa branch ni pn akan start operasi this 2013..so new house and new place..hehehe.

and they have 3 times per year for enrollment..January March and Jun..and since hubby said rumah will be completed in 3months time..so plan to enroll him during March intake and leh intai2 dl before enroll him..we see how it goes la..so hopefully rumah siap awal so leh practice stay there over the weekend dulu ke kan...

Now what are my worries :
1) Can i survive staying with my son at home berdua...but since we stay at the condo, safer la berbanding nk stay kt landed house..
    - Staying at the rumah bertingkat2 ni the tedious part harus la bab from the house to the car and vice versa..with all the bags..and everytime do the groceries..huhu..everything travel msti bags byk giler..need to get ready ngan troli..hehe..xkira ttiba kalau hujan plk..and we dont get a covered parking plk tu T__T
    - knowing me yang tak terer masak..will my son get a healthy foods...ok xyah la healthy sangat kan..tapi jangan bagi dia makan kicap+telur je selalu sudah..and he has a BIG APPETITE ok..pg td kul 7pg bangun n mintak nasi! :(
     - knowing me yang malas bangun pagi..huhu..kinda a BIG challenge for me..uwaaaaa...coz stay at gombak i can leave the house by 750am the latest...if i stay at serdang..ermmm 715am kot the latest...u can do it mama..its for ur son sake.. 
2) Can my son behave yang sangat2 behave..mandi pagi2...in a car with me morning and evening for mayb 30mins for 1 way journey...but if i pindah n enroll him to that playschool..no choice k! hehe..he just 2 years and 4months by march 2013...
3) and knowing him who has an asthma..ermm...nk berulang alik from serdang to APSH agak susah tu...me n hubby discuss jgk..what will be the nearest hospital..and hubby said kita stick to APSH as his paed knows him very well..so mayb that time kena berulang alik from gombak to opis la..
4) As our house at rawang pn dh stat monthly installment..and at 1st thought going to rent out rumah serdang utk cover rumah rawang pya monthly installment..seems like financial kami akan sangat tight coz have to pay both houses! tambah plk cost his playschool lagi..so lepas ni cuti2 malaysia je la..xde la kot oversea..huhu..


Nota Kaki : Saya percaya kita niat yang baik akan ada pintu rezeki utk kita..since mama n babah mampu..so kita akan buat mana yang termampu..biarla saving dpt rm500 sbulan pn or less or xde pn..my biggest investment is u my son..so to give u a good educations is amanah...mama xmampu nk ajar sampai farouq pandai..balik rumah mayb bz with house chores..cooking and watsoeva..so u will spend time with mama mmg la terhad..ngan babah lagi la terhad..early learning education is so important..so farouq pls be a good boy k..jangan wat mama stress nanti :)


Sunday, October 7, 2012

DILEMMA

sangat dilemma...with my limited annual leaves...hubby's limited approval of leaves..errmmm..

at first we planned to have our triple celebrations at KK+Kundasang+Tip of borneo before our lil boy turns 2 years old...

The pros :
1) family time..bonding time of rf n babah..n 3 of us reunite..
2) last infant ticket for my lil boy..so murah la kan his fare eventho last minute purchase pn
3) planned to go during raya haji..from 27th or 28th until his birthday..31/10/2012..so babahnya cuti agak cerah di situ untuk dapat approval sbb mayb ramai balik cuti raya....
4) Cozy n cold place kot...n of coz kk tu kinda a must visit la kan..as cuti2 malaysia..

Cons :
1) travel with rf berdua..from kl direct to kk..gonna meet babah kat kk trus..travel by airplane berdua is not my 1st time pn..but previously he still fully bf..so skrg bila SI dh kurang..agak risau disitu :( and since FM pn xberapa nk minum..

Yaa i dont see any cons la if we stick with our current plans...

BUT...my inlaws plans to go to legoland!!...like the whole family la pegi..since i try nk balik melaka berdua with RF this coming 20th and beside that leh attend my SIL's convocation..i did went back to melaka berdua..when rf less than 6m kot *tak ingat*..tp scary...alhamdulillah dia xnangis all the way kt highway...perjalanan gombak melaka aman..perjalanan melaka gombak la..lps keluar je highway..trus stat menangis..sbb nk susu..n since he was fully bf..so i stopped more than 3 times kot..huhu..so decided not to travel berdua wit RF n my inlaws pn xbagi dah...and since he is almost 2 years now..dh stat formula..dh stat pandai pgg botol..n stat makan..rasanya i can try la kot kan..ahaksss...

so if this 20th berjaya...and if our plan to KK continues..so of coz hubby xleh nk blk dah la kan..coz inlaws planned to go to legoland early november.. T___T

the pros :
1) expenses mayb sponsored by bapak mertua ku la *home stay + of coz i xkan drive la + tiket*..mcm trip drg ke USS early this year n i x ikut tu.. :(
2) Bonding time with in laws...
3) as ramai orang..so peluang i nk suruh sesapa jaga RF n i leh la main kt legoland tu..and ramai leh amikkan gmbr kami2..hehehe
4) n mayb leh g JPO
IF KK tak jadi n hubby choose to join project legoland :
5) leh panjangkan langkah pegi singapore...g USS plk...
6) n kinda bonding time if we go to spore between rf n babah coz i think in laws mesti xikut pya..

the cons :
1) legoland = panas
2) if hubby x ikut..ermm balik melaka jumaat n blk kl either ahad tu jgk or isnin pagi..so me la yg kena pilih..
3) terlepas la flite murah for lil rf if project kk cancel..coz hubby leh pilih either kk or legoland+USS...n xtau bila baru leh g kk tu..huhu

but i rasa better KK...sbb if xpegi this time..mayb mmg xkan pegi la for the next 2 years pya la..projek nk g pulau pn lama tertangguh ha.. :( legoland tu brapa sgt je la if en suami nk kena bayar pn if pegi bertiga..tp if pergi bertiga boring la sbb xleh nk enjoy main sama2 sbb kena gilir2 jaga RF...

so if KK xjadi n babah choose legoland and me ada la en suami xde la sorg2 mcm ala2 outsider kan nnti..hehehe..n ktrg leh g singapore..ermm but if kk jadi..me mayb tetap akan ke legoland without babah kan.. T___T