Friday, January 18, 2013

RF behaviour bila mama sakit


So its been 2 nights dah...asal blk keje dh xlarat..time kat opis gagahkan diri wat keje..update blog jgk...tp biler smpi rumah..harus pening xlarat smua...

1st night 
  • Sampai rumah around 7.30pm
  • Since period, kasi can mak n adik semayang smua dl..by the time mak dh turun..me pn naik..n macam biasa farouq akan nangis la nk ikut naik
  • So i mandi2 n rehat2...n terasa diam je kat bawah...around kul 9pm turun n tgk farouq dh tertido...sgt luar biasa la...slalu dia akan tido after 10 or almost 12 la...
  • mama pn isi hot water dlm flusk, amik botol satu bwk naik...then naik trus n biarkan farouq tido kat bawah...n me pn berehat n tertido...
  • around 12++ my mom bwk farouq naik sbb dia dh terjaga...my mom ttp lampu n me tepuk2 farouq..buatkn susu n smbg tido la kami berdua..
  • since before i naik mandi ktrg dh melayan makan honey star smbl ajar RF mengira..both of us x amik dinner and tido smpi esoknya...

2nd night (last night)
  • Same thing..arrived home around 7.45pm..kasi mak n adik smyg n then i naik mandi smua...tp xsempat makan ke apa dl..but my mom ckp farouq br lps minum sbotol susu...
  • so bila i lps mandi smua..around kul 9 dgr la suara si kecik ngan atok smua..macam nak makan..since dia xnangis so i pn biarkan je atok n opah jaga...
  • around 11++ my mom masuk blek mntk another pyjamas for farouq...sbb dia ckp baju tidur skrg tu dh bau poopoo si kecik..aissshhh..si kecik ni mmg akan ok..akan poopoo kul 7mlm skejap..n kalau x banyak akan berterusan 2 3 kali...huhu...
  • so i dont know what happened down there, tup2 around 12++ my mom bwk farouq yang still segar bugar naik...tp dia merajuk xmo naik katil...so i bwk dia turun amik botol smua..buatkan susu n dia pn naik la katil n tido....

GOOD BOY my lil son....skrg ni kita tinggal ngan opah n atok..so ada la orang nak jagakan farouq biler mama xsihat...kalau nanti kita tinggal berdua? sbb tu mama tkt nk pregnant sbb mcm ni la perangai mama bila pregnant..balik rumah trus flat...mayb ada anak lain kot smua terasa ada kekuatan or tanggungjawab or next pregnancy xkan loya n mabuk throughout pregnancy kan...so biar farouq besar sket...dh paham mama xlarat n pandai bwk diri..nanti mama kasi adik ek...hehehe...


Thursday, January 17, 2013

Holiday & Impianku

Happy to hear from my SIL that my parents in law just came back from BALI...they went there from last friday for 4 days..

My MIL decided to become a housewife if im not mistaken, after my FIL continued his Master in Mechanical Engineering in Manchester, UK. Started from there, she handled all the house chores plus the 4kids yang almost selang setahun all alone, and the last 2 kids agak jauh gapnya..5 years kot..my hubby is the eldest yo...im a Kak Long in the house...but they call me as Kak Zurai only...and became Mak Long now...hehehe

So since the youngest skrg pn dh Form 1, and 3 of the kids currently working n study at melaka..so ramai leh tgk2 kan the youngest tu...so this is the perfect time for both of them berjalan and menikmati masa2 tua bersama2..hehehe...btw my FIL currently masih bekerja..last few years he hold the title as DEAN and sangat bz n sgt slalu kena travel..so recently he decided nk jadi ketua jabatan je..no more as dekan fakulti...coz universiti yang baru nk bkembang sangat banyak research kena buat...

Since then, he is quite free..ajar pn degree for last year..bebudak2 master je...and since puan isteri (MIL) pn surirumah..sng la nk berjalan..sorang je kena mntk cuti kan? As far what i can remember :

  • last time he had to give a talk and it held at phuket, he tagged along my SIL and her husband...their expenses of coz only the flite tickets..accomodation di tanggung beres...siap smpt wat island hoping smua..
  • he went to dubai jgk (berdua this one i not sure work related ke idak).
  • g jepun jgk (melawat anak n mbawa 2 anak skali)...
  • g korea jgk (berdua melawat anak buah)..
  • g US jgk (attend konvo anak n bawak 2 anak).....and amik shari transit kat qatar utk bjalan (but hubby dh xkeje sana masa ni) and kena bayar la sket harga tiket...but my FIL penah ke qatar before that *work related* and visited my hubby
  • pergi jalan2 brunei dah 2 3 kali kot...
  • g miri la..
  • sandakan la...
  • yesterday i heard br beli tiket ke Medan & Langkawi...

Ada banyak lagi tempat drg penah pergi...istanbul..Haji and also umrah for few times...UK and tour europe zaman muda2 dulu....

Beside berjalan berdua..slalu jgk drg wat family trip...
  • bandung
  • tioman 
  • USS, Singapore ( me x join sbb drg g jumaat malam tido jb n i xleh cuti)
  • latest legoland (my 1st time la joined them without hubby)

But the best thing..my SIL cakap...everytime berjalan...mereka xshopping...even time g US pn xberapa shopping...even g bandung pn...so byk la save kt situ kan..

So me keep on saying..."takpe zuraida"..maybe nak berjalan ngan hubby bukan skrg...mayb lagi spuluh tahun...bila financially stable..and  hope HOLIDAY la n not works related la..xbest la kalau berjalan sbb works related tu...works related at least dpt g tmpt orang n just bayar tiket flite je..accomodation smua dh lepas...

Me sangat la teringin nak berjalan ke :
  • Any islands...im such a loser ok..xpenah pergi pulau2...xpenah island hoping...uwaaaa..xpernah snorkelling...xpenah pakai bikini
  • Melawat negara dekat2...asia tenggara la specially..penah ke jakarta bandung...jakarta bandung...singapore pn xpenah pergi..apatah lagi vietnam la...thailand la...owhh teringin nak ke yogjakarta..sangat2..nk tgk candi borobudur.. :)
  • Middle east n of coz nk ke qatar...tgk tmpt en suami bekerja dulu...tgk hasil apa yg dia penah contribute to that country
  • UK n of coz manchester...nk tgk tmpt dia membesar...kalau dh smpi UK harus la ke london bagai..kalau cuti n DUIT banyak leh tour europe...wakakaka...
if items #3 and #4 tu jauhhhhh lagi akan tercapai sbb skrg financial x stabil lagi..kena uruskan rumah serdang..rumah rawang..beli family car and wat saving balik baru la boleh plan...jom la en suami kita berjalan ke tempat2 the 1st 2 items dulu...huhu...terasa sangatlah LOSER ok...trip ke Hongkong last time tu pn sbb i dah cakap, kalau xpergi aritu..mmg xkan pergi la buat masa terdekat ni...

Since *alhamdulillah* kami berdua pernah mengerjakan UMRAH...so if ada rezeki lebey mayb akan ke sana together plk...sbb sebelum ni pergi ngan family masing2 je...

i rasa masalah terbesar kami adalah MASA....and since en suami keje di brunei..sangat susah nk plan bagai...trip kami ke bandung n HK pn last minute pya preparations ok...semua pn mahal...kalau en suami keje dkt sini..stakat pergi any weekend and amik cuti sehari pn dh leh g tmpt2 1st 2 items tu...en suami pn slalu balik smggu n dpt skali je weekend n tu la masa nya nk balik melaka..so mcmana nak berjalan? ermmmmm

Takpe yang..zurai bukan complaint..sbb tau priority kita skrg nk settlekan rumah2 tu dl...so zurai akan sabar menanti :)

Update :

Apa ni citer pasal in laws je kan...my family pn selalu jgk berjalan...hehehe.. :)

This year pya plan :

  • Perform umrah *again n again* but kali ni masa bulan ramadhan..insyaAllah selama sebulan n smpi shari dua raya kot
  • Ke US mayb for 3weeks or almost sbulan nak melawat kakak n family...tp berdua je..risau mmg risau..tp kos tu banyak sangat kalau i nak ikut..better kasi duit flite tiket tu buat drg belanja lagi bagus...lagipun dh winter dh bersalji  n risau nk bwk farouq yang asma itu beside lamaaa tu nk cuti..hehehe
  • School holiday bulan 3 nak bila tah mmg dh banyak plan....menghantar orang kawin n berjalan...
Beside that :
  • sudah ke beijing
  • thailand *sempadan je kot*
  • indonesia...as usual jakarta n bandung
  • brunei 
  • kat msia almost smua tmpt kot dh g...selain kt semenanjung..kk kuching miri labuan...
My mom teringin nk ke vietnam n jg yogjakarta *sama mcm anakmu ini*..so insyaAllah if ada rezeki, anakmu yang xpenah g sana akan ajak my parents skali kot..

DOA moga murah rezeki....amin amin....




Tuesday, January 15, 2013

VP - In progress

Grill - checked
Kitchen Cabinet + Built in Wardrobe = In progress

Skrg ni nk membebel or nk marah or nak happy pn xtau la...

Bedrooms : smua akan pasang built in wardrobe...2nd room akan siap2 skali ngan meja study aka meja utk letak laptop ke...since 3/4 bedrooms ada aircond pya point..basically smua blek akan ada aircond
Kitchen : akan buat cabinet skali ngan kitchen bar utk seperate kan between dining & living areas with kitchen...akan wat satu tembok utk seperate cooking area smua...
Toilet : not many changes..just pasang slider utk seperatekan between tmpt shower n sink n jamban bagai tu je..
Living Hall : Hubby cakap akan wat build in tv nya cabinet apa bagai tu...plus main aircond kat situ..so akan pasang siap2 aircond yang maybe 2h.p kot..
Dining Area : Nothing

So basically wat we need to buy..
1) Katil
  • Master bedroom : King Size
  • 2nd bedroom : Sofa bed since meja study smua dh siap2 pasang..agak sempit blek
  • 3rd bedroom : Farouq's bed..not sure what it will look like...whether single bed yang biasa or yang    fancy2...
  • 4th bedroom : Rasanya xde apa kot..sbb sini la main wardrobe nk smpn baju2 yang jarang pakai..specially baju2 n jeans2 mahal en suami..beg2 luggage...carpet ke..smua la..ala2 jadi stor la..

2) Dapur
  • Barang2 yang kos nya mahal yang HARUS dibeli : Peti ais..hob&hood, oven and also microvawe. kalau ada space beli siap2 water dispenser yang bagus jgk..
  • Periuk bagai - dh beli a few..for next trip to brunei nk borong vision..
  • Pinggan mangkuk - dah borong 2 sets of corelle and segala2 berkaitan time BIL back for good from US in 2010 dulu..
  • Cawan smua pn dh siap...beli time warehouse corningwale apa tah dl
  • Kitchen utensils  - ni je yang belum jgk...segala sudu garpu pisau senduk sudip barang2 nk smpn rempah ratus..
  • others - pinggan n mangkuk n cawan ikea yang colorful bagai tu kena beli...harus..n mcm2 yang kecik2 ni la yang akan jadi ratus2.. or ribu2...

3) Dining Area
  • just tinggal nk decide nak beli meja makan...n also baby chair and also seats utk kitchen bar tu je...*aritu tgk seat utk kitchen bar tu rm 3k...satu ok satu* pengsan....

4) Living Hall
  • Sofa and mayb rest chair. Btw sofa kalau bleh xmo yang ada space yang boleh myebabkan farouq campak mainan ke bawah tu..*please please*
  • If en suami dh siap2 ada tv cabinet bagai...tinggal beli tv n accessories lain la kot...x-box satu babah!!!

5) Bathroom
  • nothing much since mmg kondo dh siap2 ada centralized water heater...so tggl beli accessories for toilet je la...

6) others
  • Washing machine kena beli..dryer mmg dh dpt dulu time beli rumah...harap2 boleh guna lagi :)
  • Storage box smua pn harus...nak smpn mainan2 farouq *ni paling kena ok*, simpan kasut...should i say kasut babah lagi mahal dari kasut2 mama ok...to name a few..gucci la..bally la..limited edition pya kasut la..phewww...mama ada guess je paling mahal kot..hahaha..xpe en suami..tunggu2..zurai nak pow tods..n apa2 brands lain... :D
  • Jangan lupa nk beli hanger...hanger lawa tgk kat ikea satu RM 1...giler apa..mau nk beli dalam 200 kot..tp baru RM200 kn..tgk la hubby mcmana nanti..

Clockwise : Kitchen cabinet, master bedroom and 2nd bedroom

As at now...kos dh berapa ek..ingatkan kos kitchen kabinet n buildin wardrobe tu..the most it can go RM 20k la..phewww..nehi ok...nehi!! triple than my expection...en suami...kenapa!! kenapa....kenapa mahal sangat....alasan : kayu bagus..finishing bagus...n i bet en suami xkan kasi sewa nya la if ktrg decide nk duduk rawang nanti! againn...uwaaaaa

kalau rumah rawang nanti..nk kena pecah bagai..renovate bagai..nak siap2 ada rumput2 lawa...n nk concretekan pagar2 tu..dah la corner lot..believe me...without campur barang dalam rumah nanti mau more than RM 100k... uwaaaaaaaa *mcm la ada duit*

ingat en suami..sila beringat...family car xde lagi.. :(

p/s : rasa untuk bilik farouq nk beli yang air purifier yang bagus..kasi udara sihat2 kat farouq time dia tido..