Push Pressie

Semalam i baca 1 status kat twitter..she got present from hubby as they got a new baby...she mentioned it as "push pressie"...

as for me pun...after i bersalin..penah gak tanya mana hadiah as dah selamat beranak ni..bukan sng nak push ni...but i cant recall whether my hubby ada kasi anythin or not...

so smlm i sms-ed him..."eh awak..ada ke awak kasi hadiah as beranakkan RF?"..then he replied.."ada...kasi kiss"... T_T then baru teringat mmg xdapat apa2 pun..hahahah....

do we need that kinda present? if bkemampuan..i will say YES...if tak berkemampuan...u should appreciate ur wife...kena tolong during her confinement period..bangun malam bila anak nangis..n if u kasi hadiah pn its just extra thing je but..but u still kena tolong..tkr pampers ke..apa2 la..

then i replied the sms with.."sampai ati kan...dah la wife awak ni g check up sndr..mengidam cari sndr...BERANAK sengsorang...jaga baby sorg2"...and no reply from him...tu tandanya dia malas nak layan..dia tau i mengada2...sbb hari2 before that i mengada2 cakap nk baby..dia malas nk layan jgk..hahaha but he called that night n tanya "apasal ttiba nak baby?"...

but i tau i penah cakap i dont want pun the push pressie tu becoz few weeks before beranak tu i got my triple 10 present kan..diamond bracelet tu..so dah good enuf la kan..

but sebenarnya i bsyukur as...my hubby xpenah usik duit or NEVER ASK about my salary..so my money is totally for me..i yang slalu offer diri nk bayar apa2 but mostly jarang la i involve..currently my hubby menanggung smua :

1) Nursery RF

2) Monthly expenses for RF (pampers, foods and etc)

3) our 1st house (loan + maintenance)

4) utilities bills untuk rumah gombak..

and also:

5) elaun for me

6) elaun for RF

7) long term personal loan (ASB)

8) Cash saving... *i tetapkan monthly saving and not base on balance baru jadi saving*

and if i shopping baju RF or baju me..or tempah baju or beli kain baru..i akan claim..hehehe..so totally smua memang hubby yang tanggung for us 1 family...and duit hantaran kawin pn after we cash out n simpan dalam my ASB pn..my hubby never ask whether ada lgi ke..mcmana ke..

bcoz my salary pn kecik..so my monthly saving pn xsebanyak his monthly saving..so memang patut la dia yang tanggung smua kan..my expenses pn skrg ni as i dah buat full settlement kete..tggl minyak, tol dan if i gatal shopping yang diam2 xmo bgtau hubby je la...so should i ask more? ermmm...i dont think so kot..but alhamdulillah i dah manage to use my salary wisely la..kalau x..asyik shopping je...

its ok yang..no push pressie pn xpe..janji everytime zurai nak mintak duit awak kasi ye..hehe..luv soo muchhh....skrg xleh boros dah..both kena menyimpan as insyaAllah our 2nd house @ our home sweet home loan akan lulus soon...but the bad things are hubby jauh, hubby xdapat tgk progress RF..n we cannot have a family holiday selalu...xpe yang..mayb benda2 tu bukan skrg..but insyaAllah nanti rezeki tu akan datang jugak...

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