Friday, July 20, 2012

Happy Ramadhan and all our plans ruined!


After ding dong ding dong…we come to a final decision! Semua citer pasal raya….

En suami planned to come home a week after raya..coz we planned to have a quality time together2..mayb cuti2 msia ke…

So as that was our initial plans…so me la kena g brunei beraya kt sana…so that means en suami tak akan pulang during fasting month..so below were our plans :

1) Me n farouq datang ke brunei during fasting month – cancelled as dipikir2 kos mahal almost rm1k…
2) Me n farouq datang brunei n beraya sana - cancelled jgk
3) En suami balik msia a week after raya - cancelled
4) Cuti2 malaysia which we were planning to go to redang via berjaya airlines n by any of their packages - cancelled as no (3) cancelled


So we had a heart to heart conversation last nite..nasib baik mama xbeli flite tiket raya lagi...kalau tak hangus tbakar ha..so if im in his bos position pn akan buat the same thing..so i do understand what is happening there if en suami request to apply raya holiday a week after that...so his bos came out wit two options :

1) Balik raya 3 hari sebelum raya and back to work on 2nd raya
2) Balik raya a day before raya..and back to work on friday.

When the bos said start working on that particular day..so bukan balik pagi that day itself..so pagi2 kena dh ada kat opis/site...so en suami n i think semua orang mesti request naik RBA sbb ada flite malam..

And i know eventho his bos kasi pn cuti..i dont think its fair to others..lagi2 en suami macam ala2 orang key person kat sana..i xtau dia ala2 or saja2 buat2 bz ke apa..but en suami learnt a LOT from current project compared his previous project at Doha, Qatar..sampai cakap leh bukak business dah..but not now..and ramai of subcon offer him a job..jadi partner la..

This all happened as his boss learnt from last raya  holiday..bila most of married staff balik beraya..while bujang2 balik after raya..so while bosses smua kat msia beraya..yang bujang2 g holiday eventho drg patut keje..raya kan..harus la xkeje..so drg ke labuan la..kk la..n by the time bosses balik on sunday..si bujang2 sabtu balik msia..so nampak clash kat situ n site almost 2 weeks xjalan...

so his boss was giving them only two options..by friday 5th raya..the whole team dah masuk keje..n site leh bjalan seperti biasa...mood raya pn dh habis kot...so if en suami next week nya baru nk balik..tinggalkan site..waduss...harus la akan dikata n dicop nanti.."mesti ampu bos"..so if i jadi project manager pn i akan decide mcm tu..only 2 options available..choose any of it or just beraya kat brunei..

so kami memilih 2nd options..and mmg akan pack tu...melaka : : kuala selangor : : perak : : banting : : melaka :: gombak : :

so hope my both families will understand..yang kami akan rush during hubby's raya home trip..


Anyway..esok 1st Ramadhan...di sini saya mengucapkan selamat berpuasa kepada sesiapa yang membaca blog saya yang xseberapa ini..maaf kalau ada menyinggung mana2 pihak..semoga ramadhan kali ini akan memberi kebaikan dan keinsafan kepada kita..insyaAllah..sama2 la kita membuat kebaikan dan memperbanyakkan membaca Al-Quran..









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